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Gavrielov, Aharon

Gavrielov, Aharon


The youngest son of Rita and Rafael, brother of Nerio and Marina-Mazal. Was born on April 2, 1983 in Smarkand, the third largest city in Uzbekistan, the former Soviet Union. A beautiful baby, with an imposing look and glowing eyes, who thought he could change the world. His brothers greeted him with a big hug and with joy, and the whole family saw him as a gift: “In your family you were an actor, a model, you were the most precious of all the grandchildren,” writes her cousin. “You were the most expensive flower, the most beautiful, the sweetest.” Aharon spent his early years in his hometown of Samarkand, where he also began his first year of studies. At the end of October 1990, two months after the beginning of the school year, a major change took place in his life: the family decided to immigrate to Israel, and Aaron separated from his friends and familiar surroundings. He immediately entered first grade at the Sha’arey Zion elementary school in the Shapira neighborhood. He began studying Hebrew and gradually adapted to the environment and to friends. After graduating from elementary school, Aharon continued to attend the Bar-Ilan high school in Tel Aviv, where he studied for two years in middle school. When he reached ninth grade, due to the obvious tendency he showed to electronics and computers, he moved to the high school in Yavneh and lived in the local boarding school. But Aaron was a child of a house, and the separation and the distance from the family were very difficult for him. Therefore, at the end of one school year, he returned home and enrolled at Rogozin High School in Or Yehuda – the new place of residence of the family, and here he completed his studies. Aaron was the youngest of the three children in the family, but showed a surprising maturity for his age, and used to take on “big” tasks. When he was a high school student, he began to work in the evenings as a waiter in the “Classic Or Yehuda” hall, and stood out in his pleasant manner and with exceptional organizational and managerial ability. Thus, after only three months of work, he was appointed to serve as a waitress, supervising twenty waiters who worked under his supervision, and served about a thousand guests in the two halls. He was loved by everyone in the place, and he also took care of the social life of the staff. At the end of each shift he picked up the waiters for a formal conversation, with a drink left over from the event. The love of giving was a central part of Aaron’s life, and one of his outstanding characteristics. Aaron loved to help everyone – for adults and children, and he did it with great love and with all his heart. Once, his parents say, when he was asked to write a book about “How can you change the world?” Aaron wrote a moving list in which he detailed his doctrine, about the need for brotherhood between people and the ability of each and every individual to make the change: Every person must help others, Aaron wrote, and reach out – whether in touch or in speech. Aaron truly believed that every human being had a positive seed, and even the wicked, he explained, can and can find the good things. Aaron’s essay left a deep impression on his teacher: “The teacher was overwhelmed by his depth,” Rita says. “The work served as an example that one can do not only for the sake of the personal self, but to see the other,” he thought, “that in his little soul he could change the world.” Aaron’s view of the world in that connection was not only a matter of words, but a way of life for him to implement in practice. Many of his hours were dedicated to mutual aid, volunteerism, and the promotion of positive goals. For example, as part of the personal commitment project at the school, Aharon chose to work with the elderly, and in his meetings with them he gave them a supportive shoulder and an attentive ear, out of deep respect for them. Aharon even took the neighbor’s son, who had deteriorated, and returned to the rut. Another child, whose parents separated and left school, took care to bring him back to school, and even arranged for him to work.”I met you two years ago, new at work, in a new city, and from the very first moment you connected, you were there to help me,” says Yosefa, coordinator of the Or Yehuda Community Center. You, with the charming smile and the smooth, persuasive language that you helped me, were you – the student – the back of the older woman. “His family also distinguished himself as an authoritative and influential figure, with his knowledge, talent and business sense. When he was sixteen, he took charge of the public relations business of the family restaurant – the “Cart” restaurant in Azur, and ran the marketing work for nearby offices. “He wore a jacket and a tie tie,” the parents say, “prepared Pamphlets and menu, and closing deals. “His professional conduct was so impressive and convincing that people mistakenly thought that Aharon was the restaurant manager and his father was only the But Aaron, too, proved that there was no small task, Aaron liked to cook, and because he liked to spoil, he sometimes took the baton of the cook and opened a table at home according to the rules of ceremony, and with all mannerisms “He remembered every date – birthday, anniversary, Valentine’s Day or Mother’s Day,” says Rita, “and every date was a reason Aaron loved to surprise, and especially remembered the event he had held for his mother on her forty-fifth birthday. Rita also attests to how Aaron used to please her, and to tell everyone that there is no baker better than her. Marina, Aaron’s sister, says she served as her counselor and counselor: “You always knew what to say and how to act. Even her little son, Aharon’s nephew, knows how to tell about the family’s mood: “I want to tell you about my dear uncle, whom the whole family loved,” wrote the nephew. “Especially I, and also because he was kind and helpful to people, especially his family, and he loved his mother and his father.” Aaron had many friends, and they appreciated his wisdom and kindness. All along, Aharon showed his friends caring and caring, and served for them as a “wall” and a psychologist. It was not for nothing that he earned the “Rogozin” high school award for his great help to his classmates and his great contribution to the school’s social and scholastic atmosphere. The handsome Aaron was also the girl’s favorite, and he was greeted by enthusiastic applause. More than once his mother would ask him to pay attention not to break their hearts; Aharon replied that she would not worry – “I heal the girls,” he would say… Aharon’s days were full of activity and activity – as if he felt his time was limited, and that he had to do as much as he could. Between studies, work and helping others, he also found time to develop his varied hobbies – sports, writing, painting and computers – a field in which he emerged as a true genius. Aharon loved boxing, loved playing soccer and swimming in the sea, he was amazing to draw and even wrote a personal diary. In order to preserve the connection with the extended family and preserve the roots, he decided to study the Russian language in depth. “You said that this is the true integration, where you will feel connected to the Land of Israel and the people,” wrote Josepha, the coordinator at the community center. On December 10, 2002, Aharon enlisted in the IDF and began basic training at the infantry brigade training base, where only a fortnight later he was able to stay at the base, and the commander of the unit, Lt. Col. Ilan Malka, entered the hearts of the soldiers and the commanders. , Which he passed through our unit, to serve as a combat supporterSchool for Infantry Professions. During the brief period in which he served under my command, one could be impressed by Aharon because he was a serious soldier who had a strong desire to serve in the Israel Defense Forces, out of faith and commitment. Aharon was well-versed in his department, demonstrating self-discipline, gentleness and gentleness. “Aharon Aharon’s future lay ahead of him and his plans were numerous and crowded, but his short life ended prematurely, and his dreams were abruptly cut off. 30.12.2002), at the age of 19. He was laid to rest in the military section of the military cemetery in Yehud, leaving his parents, brother and sister, and his sister Marina told him: “The heart is silent, the room is empty. The memories burn, the thoughts heavy. Imagination comes up with a smile and enters the house. My usual embrace with you is so close. Life is not beautiful, it just shatters into a thousand pieces… Confused between times, I travel on dead-end roads and feel so lonely. Who will listen to me now and guide me like you? … so many bitter voices mingle in silence. Aaron, my dear brother, I know you are keeping me, guarding us from above. Shed light rays, warmth, love and sweetness. “Aaron’s downfall has shocked his family and friends, and his dream is that Aaron’s life is still alive and well as well as his love.” The family members joined the condolences and farewell letters written in his memory under an album bearing the title “Aharon – you will always be in our hearts!” So the family wrote on the anniversary of his downfall: “Aaron, remember you always, and every day is a special day for you. But this day we remember most of all – it is a bitter and sad day, we lost a very precious person, a person with a pure soul that did not sin. When you lose a loved one you can not forget his look, the help in times of trouble, the presence in joy. And you, Aaron, have never forgotten any of us who were close to you, and each will testify in his own dream that in every dream there is a clear message to everyone. “On the anniversary of his downfall, his sister-in-law Frida wrote: You were a lovely guy, handsome. A smile on your face shone like a sunny sun. When you walked down the street the girls would want to get your look, as small as possible. In a short moment it was all over, all the good you had was taken. Now, when you are up there, in Heaven, please protect us from any trouble. We will remember you forever. “Natalie, Aaron’s friend, wrote:” Aaron, time has passed and you are not with us, and as time passes you are in my heart missing. You were a person who liked to help people, and we learned a lot from you. All your life you devoted very devotedly to those who needed your help, you helped and gave of yourself. I will always thank God for being close to you, for your generosity and kindness. The days passed and time was not a cure. You do not forget, but we pray to the Lord of heaven to guard you up there, and to illuminate your soul. I will never forget you. “His mother wrote:” Aaron, you are precious to us, you are important to us. My loss is acute and painful. We did not let you go on building a life, your ship came ashore very early. Writing out of my pain. The words stop in my throat. A sea of ​​tears will not calm me down. I know you exist, but I do not see you and feel you. … I will try to continue life because I know, when I suffer you also suffer. You’re engraved in my heart. Mom. “Rita also wrote:” I dreamed about my son quite a bit, and in every dream I know that he is with me and wants to tell me something. … The message: Aaron is with each of us, and does not forget any of his friends and relatives, as you have not forgotten him. “

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