Fadlon, Alley

Ben Margalit of Barakah and Yitzhak. He was born on Saturday, 2 Tevet 5747 (May 3, 1987) in Be’er Sheva, the third of four children – brother to Elad, Moran and Avraham Eliav, and on the day of his birth he struggled for his life due to difficulty breathing, Elijah was a cute, smiling, shy child, and his eyes gleamed, and from an early age he stood out in his cleverness and aspiration to learn and develop. The teacher was impressed by the teacher’s explanation of how to operate him, and he was educated in many schools – most of them in Be’er Sheva; in grades 1-2 he attended the Tali – Amirim elementary school; In grades 3-4 he studied at the Neveh Midbar community school. In grades 5-6, he moved to the State Religious Education system at the “Amit-Rambam” school. The seventh and eighth grades he did at the Bnei Akiva Yeshiva “Ohel Shlomo” in grades 9-10 at the Wolfson boarding school and completed his studies at the AMIT high school in his city, But it is clear that behind the silence lies great wisdom and wisdom, which is accompanied by joy and joy, and Avraham concludes: “These two virtues – of joy and silence – together express the degree of security.” Hagai Benson, Elhi was a very gentle and quiet guy, socially acceptable, and he spoke calmly and quietly, with every person and at all times, always attentive, always patient, his humility was conspicuous, he did not consider himself, he did not try to stand out. A hand was just a good boy: he walked tall, virtuous and courteous, never daring, loyal, loving and loved. ” Indeed, Elhi was a man of grace and light, imbued with faith in the Creator, and always felt good. His speech and he himself was pleasant, courteous, courteous and considerate, respectful of each person, and he showed infinite capacity for giving. His famous smile – half shy and half cynical – charmed and dissolved all of his surroundings and seemed to sum up in one picture his special personality. His life was filled with laughter and lightness, and the stories he told in combination with the sense of humor spiced with cynicism were followed by many friends. Alchai also knew how to be serious when necessary, listened attentively to friends, and thanks to the wisdom of his life he knew how to help with good advice. “A kind of king, and if not, then a prince, the boy with the most golden heart,” said one of his friends, adding, “You were a great and rare person whom you do not meet every day, a man with a lot of joy that he always gave with a smile and love. And to contribute, you have always loved to give of yourself for others. ” Alhi was very attached to his family – the close and the extended – and gave them all warmth, love and smiles. He appreciated his brother Elad and saw him as a role model. He treated his sister Moran with respect and support, and for Eliav he was the best friend in all respects. He treated his grandfather with devotion and patience, and when his uncle Edgar died, he felt the need to protect his aunt Chava and took his daughters Odya and Tahor under his wing. Even with the other cousins ​​he kept in touch, never forgetting their birthdays, and if it was possible, he would be surprised and come to visit them. Elhi joined the IDF in 2005 and was assigned to serve at the Bislut School in the Shivta camp in the Negev. He was a handsome tall soldier, courteous and smiling, devoted to his work and his friends, and contributed greatly to the maintenance of the base. “With time,” attests to his superior, “it has become a factor that leads the other soldiers to the task.” Alhi offered to lend a hand to everything, and I could rely on him with his eyes closed.Surrounding it. “I remember the first time you came to camp with a sweet smile and shy face … The first time we spoke, I saw a man So humble, so good, that it is simply impossible not to love him first. Alhi’s acclimatization was very quick. In the early days, he knew everyone and spent time with everyone. “Elhi’s unbeatable smile captivated all the soldiers of the base:” How much light and love does this child project, “they would say, and the delay in the company of Elhi made everyone forget his troubles and the way he believed in him “We knew we could call him in everything,” says Rabbi Ze’ev Rons, the chief of the artillery school. When soldiers need to complete a minyan in the synagogue, Elhi makes sure his friends arrive. When it is necessary to organize and clean the synagogue, Elhi immediately takes care to arrange it. When you have to prepare a room for ‘Oneg Shabbat’ for the soldiers – call Eli and he says: ‘Honor the rabbi, look at the matter closed! After the liberation, he planned to improve the matriculation grades, take the psychometric exam, and acquire higher education, but fate did not succeed and his dreams did not come to fruition, and Elhi fell during his service on 9 Adar 5768, (March 16, 2008), in a car accident that occurred not far from his home. He was twenty-one years old when he fell. He was laid to rest in the military cemetery in Be’er Sheva, where he was buried alongside his good friend, First Sergeant Doron Asulin, who was killed during Operation Warm Winter in the Gaza Strip. Elhi left behind his parents, two brothers and a sister. After his fall, he was promoted to First Sergeant. On his tombstone the words were engraved: “A hero of the world is a child, with a smile of angels / your memory will not be exhausted from our midst forever.” “I was a child with a huge smile and a wide heart,” wrote Avi Lanuni, commander of the field artillery station’s camp, from the first conversation with him, and I realized that he had a head on his shoulders. “Alhi was a soldier who loved to help everyone and everyone loved him, he got along with everyone and was always ready to help … I’ll always remember you and always be in my heart.” Elhi’s family published a memorial book with family letters, teachers and friends, many pictures, and poems written in his memory. His mother wrote: “From the day you were born, you were a unique child, always smiling, pleasant, not angry and willing to help everyone, Gd gave me as a present, but the gift was for a very short time. Now I see everything black, we still do not realize that we will never see you again, and what remains is memories and looks … … love you and we will remember you, we will miss you every day. ” His father wrote: “… Dear my dear, you know how much I loved and cared for you, you were always proud of me, and every teacher, kindergarten teacher, or just people always admired your talent and your deadness. I have no doubt that you were a noble soul … You are probably sent on a mission whose time has ended, in which you left more questions than answers, and more hidden than the obvious … There is not a moment in the day that you are not mentioned in any way. The depths of my soul. ” “Since you left us, I have undergone various stages of mourning – denial, sadness, anger, and finally longing – the longing for your smile that you wore the last time I saw you…. The final stage, they say, in the process of mourning, is acceptance, and this stage seems thousands of light years away from me. The pain I experience as your brother is more than words. … The man, the man, the body is gone – but the soul, the voice, the charming smile, and the memories fill us with excitement whenever we are mentioned. “Elad’s wife, Maayan, wrote:” It’s hard to believe that it’s been a year since you left us. A few things have happened since then, and you have not been with us. It hurts and I’m sorry I did not get to see you dance at my wedding and Elad’s and I did not get to call you brother-in-law. I know how loving children and how much you could have been a good uncle for our children in the future. Your smile remains a memory of me. All the stories about you are full of this smile, it was impossible not to smile with you. “You’re very missing, you’ll always be missing, but you’ll always be in our hearts.” Moran, Elhi’s sister, wrote: “Tell me how to tell me what you feel / I always think about you / Everything is different for me without you / , Do not believe / how you picked so young / fate is merciless, he picks only the good … ‘. To the sound of this song I go home from work, go and think how true it is, as if the song was written on you. Arrives at the intersection near the house, and continues to drive towards the cemetery. Who would have believed, alas, that I should come here to talk to you. We had so many plans together, and everything was cut off in one day. “I love you and miss you a lot,” wrote his younger brother Eliav. “You are my role model. I want to be like you – beautiful and thin, and to conquer everyone with the smile like yours. “His friend Daniel Perez wrote to him:” … I could not believe and accept from all the people in the world that he was so righteous and God-fearing, so good to others, will be picked up at the beginning of his life. It is hard to forget the angelic smile that has accompanied us all for so long. But I know and believe that Eli is with us. Prays on us and recommends honesty before the deceived dweller. I will never forget Elhi, the great privilege that I had in being a friend. … I think the main thing I learned from Mulhi is that no matter what state you are in, always know to smile and look at everything in an optimistic and positive way, and when there is joy and faith as they always have – everything worked out best. “Aunt Liszt wrote: You were a good boy, a smiling child, whose one smile makes you sad and worried. … When you came to our house you brought with you a great light and a captivating smile. The children saw you as a big brother and always enjoyed being with you. We will forever remember the joint trips we made with you and the family. You made sure to make everyone laugh and create a good atmosphere and joy. You did not miss a single trip, you were always there and you had a significant role – you were a entertainment team. … Your whole being was one big gift to anyone who wanted to. We will never forget your positive character, a tzadik and a lover of Torah and Derech Eretz … “wrote Guy Avraham:” … I got into my heart the first time I saw you. The gleam in the eyes – like the eyes of an angel. … I was sure you would go the farthest, but I did not know it would be so far and that we would not see you anymore … “Matan Nizrit wrote:” Somewhere in 2000, I first met Elhi. There is no way I would not have noticed my brother … Although quite shy, but once the guy opens, you discover an extraordinary personality! Smart, clever, funny to the point of tears, sensitive, witty like no other, a loyal friend, of great size, loved and loved simply for all creatures! … In his death he commanded us to live a life full of joy and laughter, and we must be proud that we had come to know such a special person. I’ll never forget you, mate! “Wrote Eliad DichTerre, a member of the service: “… Elchi was a kind man, wanted to help everyone with everything He always wanted to give and contribute and volunteer … I loved Elhi like a brother, not many people like he was – good and full of joy, with A smile on the face all the time, who always like to help … I learned from him and I have to take everything well, and all for the best, and smile as much as possible. ” Rotem Srur wrote: “Dear Alhi, you were a charming person, full of charm and a constant smile on your face, full of warmth, love and sympathy for those around you … Your lack is great, we miss you, the person around you is always a lot of friends. To be, to laugh and to forget the troubles … I will not forget you forever dear friend. ” The staff of the quartermaster team wrote: “There is no one who did not know you / and your charming smile / You were always willing to help with joy, / You were a person with an amazing character and personality. “I can not live with this pain / live without you, want to be with you, close to you / Hello friend, I can not talk about you / remember and think I will not see your face again I’m looking at the sky. You see me there / The stars that shine, the people who cry / The heart that dies … “Elah Immortalized in different ways. The Beckett youth group in Be’er Sheva has renamed it the “Alhi Fadlon Group”. The team won the first place in the youth department tournament of the Beer-Sheva junior-soccer championship. A tree in memory of Alhi was planted in the Jerusalem hills by Hedi Shimon of the Jewish community of the United States. Hedi wrote to the family: “I hope that this tree will grow magnificently – just as you raised Elhi, and that his roots will hold on to the earth as his memory will never be erased.”