Fisher, Nir (Gershon)

Ben-Ami and Meir. Born on June 16, 1977 in Tel Aviv, brother of Liat, who was 18 years older than him, was a very close family member who hosted Nir when he was a year and a half old, describes him as follows: His raised chair is at the table like a small, upright, obedient, beautiful king – black curls adorn his face, eyes glistening, listening and eating with a knife and fork in his hands, just like a big one. “Nir grew up in Alfei Menashe in West Samaria. Sharon, “and completed his studies at the Ostrovsky High School in Ra’anana, where he was active in the Scouts movement for several years. “The man is the tree of the field,” wrote Natan Zach, and the words were written on Nir: Nir loved Adam, the living and the plant, treated animals with devotion and felt a deep connection to nature. His friend, Michal, described him: “… You are the gaze, the serenity, the calm in every movement, the gentleness, the smile with the shining eyes, the eternal optimism, the acceptance, the giving! “As his father before him, Nir was also a sergeant, but due to a mistake in diagnosing his medical condition, he was given a relatively low profile and was unable to go to combat service.” On March 10, 1996, he was drafted to a computer unit , And he served there for a year and was very frustrated, Nir felt that he was not fulfilling his abilities and did not contribute enough, and after repeated requests, he underwent another medical committee, which found him completely fit to serve in a combat unit. He served as a tank driver, and was later sent to a course for airliners at the end of which See tank battalion commander and business training. He was proud to be the next generation in the Armored Corps, and was greatly admired by his commanders and commanders. In 1999, Nir was released from the IDF and returned to work at the computer company where he worked before he was drafted. His journey began in Los Angeles, where he worked for a steel marketing company as an operator, maintaining and supporting about forty computers. After ten months, he traveled to South America for a long and time-consuming trip. In the summer of 2000 Nir returned to Israel, rented a charming apartment in Tel Aviv with two friends and found work. A short while later he met Or, and their love matured into a shared residence. In October 2002, Nir began to study alternative medicine, as he always dreamed. During his service in the reserves, Nir fought in Operation Defensive Shield in 2002, carried out missions to protect settlements and traffic arteries, and fulfilled his duty willingly and out of faith in the justness of the road. Brigadier General Eyal Zamir, commander of the unit, described him as saying: “Nir was a devoted friend, admired for his commanders and soldiers, and he showed a strong desire to contribute, loved to help and help, and performed the tasks that were best assigned to him.” On January 28, 2003, Nir left for the last reserve service, where he was engaged in reconnaissance missions on the Alei Zahav-Peduel line in Samaria. He did not return from this service. Nir fell in operational activity in Samaria on February 4, 2003, when the “Sufa” jeep in which he was traveling in the Bruchin region, east of Qalqilya, turned into a slope. Was killed, two soldiers were lightly and moderately wounded, and Nir was critically wounded and spent a day fighting for his life at Beilinson Hospital, but the doctors’ efforts to save him were unsuccessful and he died at the age of 26. He was laid to rest in the military section of the Alfe Menashe cemetery, Parents, sister,And his life partner – Or Juari, who planned to establish a family with her. After his fall he was promoted to the rank of sergeant. The inscription on his tombstone reads “Dear Nir, We are from eternity, now and forever.” On his grave, his friends eulogized him: “Nir, Company M salutes you today … M Company – the one that insisted not to harm its members – and to report to the reserve duty to contribute and share its burden with its members, today secures you and promises to commemorate your memory and stand by Your family and your friend as much as necessary, they say hello to you, Company M. ” Nir, who always liked to help and give, signed a “Eddie” card in his youth, expressing his willingness to donate his organs to the transplant. In his death, Nir Haim ordered five people whose organs had been transplanted; his heart was implanted in the body of a man of fifty-eight; His two lungs were implanted in the body of a fifty-year-old woman; The liver was transplanted into the body of a seventeen-year-old boy; One kidney was transplanted into a sixteen-year-old boy; A pancreas and another kidney were implanted in the body of a man of fifty-eight. In two other people, Nir’s corneas were implanted and restored to their eyesight. Articles published in the press and in the media brought Nir’s story, revealing the noble deeds of his parents who donated his organs and wished to emphasize the importance of organ donation in saving the lives of patients. “It’s a good feeling to give life to someone,” said Tami, Nir’s mother. “I hope his act will serve as an example to others.” Nir’s family received many letters of condolence, the most moving of which were the letters of the transplanted and their families. Nir Nir, who wrote to Nir Nir, wrote to Nir Nir: “With all the conversion and loss that you have come to, fate has determined that your noble contribution and yours will be part of me … The fall and fall of dear Nir will be a candle and a torch for all of us. I wish that I should be worthy of Nir and his deeds, and my little prayer, may the pure heart throbbing within me be for you a tiny and appreciable consolation. ” Wrote Benjamin Levy, whose body was implanted in Nir’s pancreas and kidney: “I received a gift of life from your dear son Nir, in his noble act, saved five souls, and this is said: ‘Whoever saves one soul saves a whole world.'” “The loss of a son is the worst loss a person can experience, and we are very impressed by your ability to find the strength, at such a difficult personal moment, to think about others, people who are looking forward to a donation that will give them hope for a longer and more quality life. “He gave us a new meaning,” he said, “to thank you forever.” “This connection between two hearts – the giver and the recipient – is vibrating hearts,” says Esther Doron, “in the language we use daily in paraphrases for the word ‘heart’, without being almost aware of the deeper meaning. If you can find solace in this giving, it will be your consolation. ” Many eulogies, songs and farewells were written in memory of Nir. His grandmother said to him: “Our lovely child, where is the consciousness and the knowledge that we will no longer see you? We will not share any more hours together, no longer face me with a captivating smile, Let’s talk, ‘when we’ talk ‘is actually your wish to hear about the land, about life under the Mandate, about underground activity, about the War of Independence, about life in besieged Jerusalem … I have to make do with memories alone. You were young, alert, interested and caring, young with a heart full of love, love for your family, your homeland, your girlfriend, your friends, and others. And A. through which you can help people. So even that is right for you molten let live”In a condolence letter to the bereaved family, the chief of staff, Lieutenant General Moshe Ya’alon, wrote:” … Nir was described as a professional soldier who showed a strong will To serve in the reserves and to contribute to the state, his commanders say that he was a smiling, energetic and cheerful man who liked to help and help at all times … Nir was characterized by the special relations he had forged with his commanders and with his comrades in the company. A friend said, “He went out in the morning, he went to reserve duty, it ‘s not the first time, and you’ re as anxious as the first time, and you say to him: Watch out, take care of yourself. He was a man who cared so much about others, and he had a mission, and he did it the way he always did it, the best he knows, he got out in the morning, there is no pain worse than losing a child. “And since you left, everything has remained in the face / sea of ​​darkness looking for a shrapnel.” / How easy was it for you? To reach the hearts of others / And at the same time you have always been yourself. / / In your soul there will be a great surge of love … / And on such a night, the end of a rainy winter, / In the sounds of desperation Hope for the best For all the marchers / Close to / with a longing to complete a missing piece, / to each soul that has shared with you the good and the good / and know that we will continue on the way and you are on our side, not in the ground / with much hope, desire and anticipation / Orly’s letter: “Nir, you do not have to talk or write – just look at your eyes and you’ll understand everything … You taught me what love is, trust, confidence, humanity, and so much more. Nir – I had the pleasure and the privilege of being with you, loving you to the depths of my soul – forever. ” Ariel wrote: “Piske: You taught me that I can do everything myself, you did not tell me how, you just did things without the fear of destroying … through calm, quiet, courage and true friendship, without conditions, moving worlds … You always helped me, You’ve always been there for me … I’ve learned from you even the gentleness with which you have to treat animals … You had a life rhythm of your own with which to instill calm in everyone around you … I thank God for all the love I received from you and the way of life I learned You always exist in my present and always will be, love you and miss you. Yuval Or (Liran): Nir / Experience / Experience / Another Experience / Unconfirmed missed opportunity / promise, that you will return to the book, I am still waiting / two children / two teenagers / questions / questions. “And suddenly he opened his eyes / and felt a strong light hit his face / looked around him and was amazed to find out,” said a family member of Nir, Little Chalban. / They are suddenly close, smiling at him / holding out his hand, patting him on the shoulder … // And the next moment – a shocking sight / parents, family, friends, Friends, Heaven – everything tears / ‘Who are you crying about?’ He tries to ask / and suddenly understands – the bereavement fell on them … / … / ‘Do not worry!’ He tries to talk to them / ‘I’m in a safe place, here it does not hurt anymore / God is here and I have a guard / Someday we’ll meet again – that’s what he says …’. When I wrote this poem a few years ago I never imagined that one day it would become the eulogy for my cousin – sonGili! … I hope that where you are now you are protected. “Nir, I wanted to write you a poem / and the pain seeps, so strangling and mighty / A song about a child we can not forget / And such a death that does not give rest.” And again Nir, I tried to write you a song / On the thunder that landed on a clear day / On the thicket of your hair, a smile of a million / And again the tears sting in your throat // … // And only that you know that your golden stage Nir, implanted in another / will always beat with us because we will not give up and even if you do not understand / What do we do about it, and what should we get excited about? / We promise to explain to you … / When we meet. “She wrote a song:” … Thank you for the time I won. That I enjoyed. That I enjoyed walking by your side. To know the silence. The peace, the presence, the simplicity of being, the ease. … I’ll let the songs speak for me. And I’ll shut up. Or cry. Or whatever … I’ll be … “Nir was commemorated in various factories, and his parents donated two computers to his elementary school,” Tzofe Sharon. “The parents of the Nachman and Sanders family donated a name to the” Shield ” “The Srebrenik family donated money in his memory to the” Community Help Fund “, which carries out community projects for needy people and runs enrichment programs for immigrant children and children at risk. Kaplinsky, Nir’s life partner, Or, produced a video that commemorates his image and takes pictures and eulogies To a “Flash” presentation prepared by a family member of Nir-Liron. A member of Nir’s family, Tamir Halbin, recorded a poem he wrote in his memory: “In a cruel world / was taken prematurely / to your silver / eternity blue / now you can cry / the sky is crying with you / drops from heaven / tears of an angel / In my paradise / flower / You will never be alone / You are always in my heart / Every happy moment / Every laugh and joy / Remind me of you, Nir / Where are you / A new star sparkles tonight / reminiscent of your sparkle / Without you … “The preparation of the presentation, the song and the video took about a year and were distributed to the disk whose cover was designed by Liat, Nir’s sister. The members of the unit planted an olive grove in his memory and the memory of the late Lior Naftali in the settlement of Yodfat in the north.